We all have someone we are trying to seduce, and unlike what the media would suggest it is not always someone who is either theoretically out of our league or someone we are not in a romantic relationship with. Sometimes, we want to take a relationship to the next level, or we want to simply do something special for someone we are already involved with, show them they still have the same potent effect on us that they have always had. Whatever the reason may be seduction is simply a showing of appreciation and attraction.
Now, how do we go about doing that? for one, a good start is always lingerie. Whether you are Lingerie Shopping for yourself or them, it is a gift that you will both enjoy. However, lingerie cannot be your one-stop shop for all thing’s seduction. In fact, it should not be. Lingerie is simply a sexual gift that will be appreciated, a small aspect of what should be a bigger process.
Here are three things your lingerie plan should have or may be missing.
Honesty, wow, who would have thought. The truth is if you are going through the process of seduction this person means something to you, whether romantically or sexually. Honesty is a sure way of making sure communication stays open and fruitful. Mixed signals are less likely to occur that way.
Think of them. Yes, well I know you are technically doing that by initiating the plan. However, truly think of them. What do they like, and what would they rather do? It is pretty easy to simply go for the traditional flowers and dinner, which some people do enjoy, but not all. Let their needs be placed as top propriety.
Be open. It is always rewarding to be open with your partner or would-be partner. You won’t be able to fully experience or appreciate new things if you do not open yourself to them.